My last post was on
how I learnt a big lesson in life to never say never. I have been through many
situations where grabbing an opportunity has gifted me with new things in life,
new friends and new beginnings as well. It’s never easy to understand what
effect an opportunity will have on your present and future and thus, there’s no
point debating over whether to take it up or not. The key here is to stay
optimistic and experience the whole event with a positive outlook.
This post is on
optimism and what role it played and continued to play in life. After
completing my Graduation studies in Kolkata, my sister suggested that I move to
Mumbai for higher studies and that the city has a better scope of work
opportunities in the field of communication. We weighed the pros and cons for a
while, worked on the financial issues and debated over a few other things. And
finally, I ended up going to Mumbai to pursue my post-graduation studies there.
The education system in Kolkata and Mumbai are different. If one follows the
traditional method of black board teaching, the other used PowerPoint
presentations for each subject. If one believed in giving in hand-written
notes, the other mailed us presentations to refer to.
The initial few days
were a cultural shock. I have grown up studying in the traditional method
where, classes and teachers were all about taking notes, memorising them for
the exams and write pages and pages of answers. And here I was, referring to
presentations to understand concepts, given a free way to refer to any book I
want on the concept and prepare presentations on them. Now, our assignments
were mostly presentations and interactions and not written tests. It was
difficult to give presentations where you cannot just keep saying what you
memorised last night. My initial presentations went wrong on many factors: I passed
the allotted time limit, I was not clear in explain what I wrote in the
presentation, my body language lacked confidence and when it came to
interacting with the audience, I failed. These all affected my grades and after
a few assignments, I started all my motivation. There wasn’t any positivity in
my mind and lacked confidence every now and then.
The miracle that
changed my ‘this’ frame of mind, was when a professor called to check if I
required any help. He exactly understood what I was going through and suggested
a solution. That I should not take these assignments as only ways of scoring
marks but as a process of learning. That I should observe why some of the
students are always carrying away the brownie points and how they appeal to the
audience to listen to them. It won’t help if I starting losing confidence but
it will definitely bring about a change if I start being optimistic about these
opportunities of self-improvement and development. Confidence comes when you
are optimistic about a situation and I had to realise that. True to his words,
it worked. I realised that more than explaining the concept, I needed to
interact about the concept; I need not spell out every word but explain the
concept with its main points only. This paved the way for a new beginning in my
life where interacting became easier, confidence was re-built and optimism
never left the inner self.
Good or bad, things
will be the way they are. The only thing that we are capable of doing is work
hoping that it gives the best results.
I am linking this post
to A to Z Challenge #Day 15 for alphabet O.